About Me

Hard Days

My name is Jennifer Oliver, and I am a mother who has walked this heartbreaking road. I experienced a late pregnancy loss and watched my older children—especially my then-six-year-old son—struggle to understand what it meant to lose a sibling they never got to hold. I wrote this book because I needed something gentle, honest, and comforting to help my children make sense of their emotions while keeping our baby’s memory present in our home. My Brother Was Born Sleeping is told through the eyes of a child learning to navigate grief, confusion, love, and healing. Through the narrator’s journey, this story offers families a compassionate way to talk about loss, remember their baby, and find hope together

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The Book

Keep safe

This keepsake is told through the voice of a six-year-old sibling and gently supports families with children ages 6–12. Using calming rhythm and clear, truthful language, it helps young readers understand their emotions, process what happened, and hold space for their baby as a cherished part of their family story. Soft, comforting illustrations deepen the message and guide the connection.

Fun Facts About the Book

  • A child-centered narration honoring curiosity, sadness, and love.
  • Clear, age-appropriate explanations of miscarriage and stillbirth.
  • Thoughtful activities to remember and honor the baby.
  • Supportive notes for parents navigating conversations about grief.

what’s inside the book

Resources for Families

his section offers thoughtful guidance to help your family move through this difficult experience, providing gentle, practical support that aligns with the comforting themes and purpose found throughout My Brother Was Born Sleeping.

Immediate coping support

For parents: guidance on speaking with grieving siblings

Age-appropriate insight and materials

For professionals: tools for grief care

For friends offering support

Meaningful memory keepsake ideas

who this

book helps:

Families seeking comfort after experiencing the loss of a baby.

Parents looking for language to support grieving young children.

Support teams and medical staff needing gentle, child-centered guidance.

Friends and relatives hoping to offer a thoughtful, meaningful remembrance gift.

discussions for

book Lovers

Helping Siblings Heal After a Loss

When a family experiences the loss of a baby, the impact is felt deeply by all members, especially siblings.

The Quiet Strength of Remembering

Remembering a baby lost too soon is an essential part of healing for families. Talking out loud to the baby, even though they are no longer physically present, helps keep their spirit alive in the hearts of loved ones.

You Are Not Alone

The journey after stillbirth can feel incredibly isolating. Many parents and siblings believe their grief is unique or misunderstood, but the truth is that no one needs to walk this path alone.